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Feelings and Attitudes have a huge impact in our abilty to achive "happily ever after" Feelings are what they are..We cannot force it, we fall madly head over heels in love with someone or we don’t..as have saying.."you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink" there is no magical way to change how we fell..Our feelings are not right or wrong: they just exist..Our feelings are very powerful and definitely have control over how we make choices and how we move through life..Feelings are based in emotions and emotions come from the heart..We can’t change them from our logical minds..if our special someone in our life leaves us then we felt hurt we cannot be expected to simply stop feeling hurt, we will feel some level of sadness until we have finished feeling sad..It is possible to distract ourself for a while, but the feelings will just lay dormant until we allow it to fully run their course. I think theres nothing wrong with wanting to distract our self from the bad feelings of missing that special someone but it will slow down the process..Regardless of how we handle our feelings,we are going to fell what we feel until it works it is way through our hearts, we might always miss thet special someone and felt slight tug in our heart when we think back, but the overwhelming sadness will eventually pass and it always does..That’s why they say "time heal all wounds" We cannot mantain any one feeling indefenitely..Our emotions are shifting and uncontrollable..

Attitudes..are rooted in our belief..Our minds have complete and total control over what we believe..Our attitudes is not more powerful because it is more important than our feelings..it is more powerful because it is more stubborn than our feelings..Attitudes win rather than feelings because feelings are ever changing and flexible while attitudes are often locked into place and become an unmovable force..But when both..our emotions and attitudes match..then we have an inner balance and harmony within ourself..Attitude comes from our heads and feelings come from our hearts ..and when both our emotions and attitudes agree we are able to focus and move forward with confidence..but if "not" we have to decide what is right…the hearts feelings? or the heads attitude?..

Let’s start with an unsettling truth..Change will never be a lover.People want all the loose ends in life to be tied up neatly like they are at the movie. In reality, Life is more like a serial than a movie.The show is never  over in the Real World..You have to ready to battle any form of circumstances in our Life day after day..Without a break! and you need to find ways to fix all the flat tyres while moving!..

While is it true that every improvement is the resutl of change,not every change is an improvement.The past has value and it will continue to have value..at the same time, you cannot cling to the past and present to forge your way into the future..in this changing world experienced is valued.But you cannot rest on you laurels to do that is guarantee obsolescense..in short you have more tension.

In this age of constant change the commitment to quality is no longer just an option: Build in surprise and adventure to match your commitment to quality the earlier you take risks and make errors, the sooner you can learn experienced..

The old message was " Do more with less"..Today!..it is "Do Less with Less" Focused be Flexible and Be Smart on real priorities.

Why won’t the people in our lives see life as You and I do? That is because everyone see’s life differently.Everyone looks through their own set of personal narrow filters..as we observed..Our relationships to our friends, relatives and to all people around us..It becomes apparent that there are degrees of conflict everywhere..People fight about beliefs, actions, and even unrealized expectations..

It has been said that perceptions become reality in the minds of people..I believe that if people are to live with balance, PEACE and HARMONY, they must look squarely at how they perceived and interpret LIFE, and how they act upon what they see..

Each person brings unique knowledge and situations..Truth for you is what works for You as you move down the highway of life..The key to inner PEACE and building good relationships with others is to accept the everyone has their own way of looking at LIFE..